It may sound somewhat provocative but it’s actually where reality exists. Or at least what we call reality. Or in other words: it’s what we make of it using our minds that defines reality. The meaning we attach to our observations. Not seldom do our minds come up with stories about what is currently happening that define our subsequent course of action. And whether it’s predominantly your left or right hemisphere makes an important difference. Left is looking for power, and control and wants to understand the not connected parts. The right sees the bigger whole with relationships between the parts. How often do you pause a moment to go to your point of stillness in order to get out of your reactive mode and to get open for what is really there in front of you? As it were: can you allow it to show itself to you?